It's Raining, It's Pouring

The yearly average rainfall for Cairo is one inch. Today was amazing!

Really?!

So, these are the kind of lame messages I get on fb from random Egyptian men. This one gave Jordan and I a good laugh! Enjoy!


hello kristina ,

i hope i am not bothering u with my messages , i saw your profile here by chance and i thought it would be nice to get to know u if u will be interested

i dont know if i can have such a chance to hear from u or not , but i hope it will happen , and i guess we are all here for a reason , which is mainly knowing people whom we can share either feelings or ideas or what ever together , and it such a good thing that we are able to do this on the web , as u can feel free to express your feelings without being shy of any thing , and in the same time u feel safe and relax , and its like a big gallery of people , u can choose whom to contact or to reply for with any obligation , and even if u choose to contact someone and then u found out that he is not same like u thought or not the right person to be in contact with, then u can shut him down any time u want and without any obligation .

i hope that u got my message , i dont want to make it long for u , but i hope i will get a reply soon and we can get to know each other,u can also add me to your m s n if u would witch is a much easier way to communicate or if u have a better way of communication please let me know about it :) ehab.sh2@hotmail.com , and please if u dont want me to contact you again please let me know .

waiting for your reply

ehab

The Good and the Bad

Jordan is back from his time in Lebanon which I am grateful for!! He brought with him lots of goodies such as Lebanese roasted nuts! They are amazing.

Good news this week:

My friend Anna and her hubby Mark had their first baby! Molly is adorable!

Jordan surprised me with tickets to Turkey in May. What a blessing it is to be alongside my hubby when he travels!

I have a four day weekend for Coptic Easter and a much needed break!

Silk soy milk was at the store and I purchased enough to last me 3 months!

Had an Avocado Fruit Cocktail at the grocery store that was heavenly!

Bad news this week:

I broke my brush trying to swat at a mosquito.

I have turned against my high heels...they are so annoying in Egypt!

My recent baking has been disappointing. I am great at cooking, but baking...I don't know what happened. I guess I am turning into Rachel Ray(she claims she can't bake). I plan to change this with some cinnamon rolls this weekend!

Good week or bad week, it just doesn't matter! The Lord is and always will be steadfast!

"The law of the Lord is perfect, reviving the soul. The statues of the Lord are trustworthy, making wise the simple. The precepts of the Lord are right, giving joy to the heart. The commands of the Lord are radiant, giving light to the eyes. The fear of the Lord is pure, enduring forever. The ordinances of the Lord are sure and altogether righteous. They are more precious than gold, than much pure gold; they are sweeter than honey, than honey from the comb. By them is your servant warned; in keeping them there is great reward."

Psalm 19:7-11

Ain Sokhna, Egypt

Jordan and I took a day trip to Ain Sokhna which is really one of the top places to visit in Egypt and conveniently an hour and thirty minutes away from Cairo. We had a great time exploring the Movenpick Resort and getting lost driving back to Cairo.

A Little Taste of Cairo

This is a video of us driving around on the weekend. There have been so many times where I've said, " I wish I had my camera!" Now I take the camera everywhere we go. There is never a dull moment in this city so hopefully we will be capturing it for your viewing pleasure. On this particular trip, we drove to Maadi (the place we stayed at in April) and got a rug for our hallway and a glass candle holder. Maadi is full of these really crafty, hole-in-the-wall shops with all sorts of interesting things! Maadi is also where a lot of foreigners live, so it has a different standard. You can go out and walk around in shorts and a T-shirt and be fine. Maadi also has a decent community church and lots of cozy coffee shops and restaurants. Down sides to Maadi are there aren't a lot of sidewalks, there is a lot of trash on the ground, and it is closer to the city and the Nile which means more smog and noise. It was a good day trip for us! I enjoyed running into people I work with.

I have a voice and this is what it says:

Time for me to be brutally honest about the situation in Egypt. The reason for my honesty: I put up with it every day, I read articles in the local magazines and attend seminars, 70% of my conversations are about this, and for those that are visiting, like family, it is important to be informed and keep in mind that this will drive you crazy, but there are things that you can do about it! What am I talking about: Sexual Harassment.

Search any current news about Egypt and this will be at the top of the list. Sexual harassment is on the rise in Egypt. There are many factors that are causing this and mostly it has to do with the media that comes in from the west portraying images of women that are sexual and this is leading to a misunderstanding that foreign women, young and old, are loose in terms of modesty. Also, in a place where there are rigid roles between the sexes, in Egypt's case a male dominant role, women are the more vulnerable sex and are subjected to sexual violence and harassment.

Although, foreign women have seen more of a percentage of harassment, even Egyptian women who dress modestly or wear a head covering receive almost the same percentage of harassment. I actually saw a completely covered woman being harassed by a man while passing her on the streets of Cairo. Unbelievable!

Here are some things that I am doing to avoid situations. If you will be visiting, I suggest you take these precautions too.
1. Avoid crowds (especially large groups of men...they are everywhere)
2. Be in a group or with a man if you are a woman.
3. Dressing modestly helps, even the man should be wearing long pants instead of shorts as to not draw attention. Blending in, as hard as it is, helps a lot.
4. Do not share a taxi with anyone. If you are a woman sit as far away from the driver as you can and do not engage in conversation.
5. If you are a man, have good eye contact with an approaching group of men. If you are a women, look down, avoid eye contact, move away from them, and keep walking.
6. Learn short phrases in Arabic like no, go away, or shame. Say them loud and firm and walk away without looking.
7. Fight or flight...pick one and stick with it. If you hear sexual comments, just walk away. If they touch or grab, be ready to fight with strong words or physical violence.
8. Be aware of your surroundings at all times. If you are a women, know how to avoid people crossing behind you. Try to keep your distance.
9. Find help from store owners, guards, and other women if you are being harassed. The police are not helpful, they are usually the ones harassing, so avoid them.
10. Be prepared in how to defend yourself against a physical attack. Keys in hands and go for the eyes.

Yes, even taking all these precautions, I have still been harassed. The first time was during rush hour on the metro when Jordan and I entered onto the train and a man got in front of Jordan and groped me. I screamed "haram", pointed, made a scene, but nothing was done to report it. Another situation occurred as I was walking behind Jordan with another girl and a young man jumped to my side and kissed me on my cheek. I pushed his body away and caught up a few paces with Jordan. I have had sexual comments and gestures from boys (1o years old) which Jordan quickly defused and scared the daylights out of them. I have even been harassed twice at school by high school boys making kissing actions towards me and cat-calling. On a daily basis, I leave my apartment and get harassed by the workers whistling and screaming out inappropriate remarks. Even driving in the passenger seat of my own car, I get looks and whistles from buses full of men sitting in traffic on the streets.

The speaker from the US Embassy made a good point: The only way to avoid the constant unwanted attention is to move back to the US. You can't fix 80 million people! You can talk about the situation, share, and learn from others.

So if you are brave enough to visit us, and I hope that you do, just be prepared. Oh, and Mom and Dad, mace is illegal, so cross that off my Christmas list.

Baby Shower Egyptian Style

Jordan and I attended a baby shower this weekend of an Egyptian couple we are friends with. It was quite the experience. We walked into a room full of family members, maybe 30 people that were all taking turns holding the newborn baby. There were chairs all along the wall, so most everyone was sitting except for the new mom and dad and their mothers. A couple of the younger girls were serving drinks and passing out candle sticks. By the way, the drink was a vegetable based drink with crushed nuts and coconut and it was delish. The music that was blasting the whole time was an Arabic rhythmic music. Some of the older women started to ululate in this high-pitched voice. I've heard this before from the women who are all covered, so I didn't realize it was traditional to all of Egypt. That started the official celebration and another older woman took a metal mortar and handle, placed it on the ground and started banging it to the rhythm of the music(this was louder than a cow bell but same metalic sound). Then they lit the candles, place the baby on the ground, sprinkled what looked to be lentils or something on the baby's head, and then the mother stepped over the baby 6 times as the crowd walked around holding the candles. Then, an older woman took the baby that was in a basket and tossed and shook it to apparently bring the bad spirits to the surface and rid of it. So the baby was literally being tossed around which was scary to watch, but fascinating because the baby slept through all of this. Then after the tossing, the baby was put in the middle of the room while people walked by and touch it. A huge amount of food was served and by that time, Jordan and I were looking at an hour ride back to our apartment so we left. As we were leaving we both looked at each other in amazement that we had just witnessed that. Jordan was having fun watching my reaction to everything. It was so out of my element, but very cool to be a part of.

Sports Club in Egypt

Location: Sports club in Egypt

Me: Wow this club looks amazing.

Jordan: Yeah, let's go check it out.

Location- Inside the club

Jordan: Excuse me miss, we were interested in the sports club. Where is the gym?

Miss: I don't know.

Jordan: Well do you know where I can find a brochure? (again in arabic)

Miss: No

Jordan: OK, thanks.

Kristina: That's weird...Isn't the gym kind of a big deal in a sports club?

Jordan: Excuse me sir, do you know where the gym is? (again in arabic)

Sir: It is closed for men, only open for women. If you walk this way you will find it. (in arabic)

Jordan: OK, Thanks.

Sir: Hey, where are you going?

Jordan: To the gym.

Sir: Only she can walk to the gym.

Jordan: Where do I go?

Sir: You stay here on this side of the sidewalk

Kristina: OK, I guess I will walk to the entrance by myself.

Location-gym

Kristina: Excuse me miss, the door to the gym is locked. Do I need a key? (Again in horrible attempt at arabic)

Miss: I don't know (in arabic)

Kristina: OK, thanks

Location-on the other side of the sidewalk

Kristina: The gym is locked. Let's go see if we can find someone who can tell us about the club and hours.

Jordan: Sir, can you tells us about the club and hours?

Sir: Go to gate 1

Location-gate 1

Jordan: Sir, can you tells us about the club and hours?

Sir: Go to gate 5

Jordan and Kristina: We give up!