Baby Shower Egyptian Style

Jordan and I attended a baby shower this weekend of an Egyptian couple we are friends with. It was quite the experience. We walked into a room full of family members, maybe 30 people that were all taking turns holding the newborn baby. There were chairs all along the wall, so most everyone was sitting except for the new mom and dad and their mothers. A couple of the younger girls were serving drinks and passing out candle sticks. By the way, the drink was a vegetable based drink with crushed nuts and coconut and it was delish. The music that was blasting the whole time was an Arabic rhythmic music. Some of the older women started to ululate in this high-pitched voice. I've heard this before from the women who are all covered, so I didn't realize it was traditional to all of Egypt. That started the official celebration and another older woman took a metal mortar and handle, placed it on the ground and started banging it to the rhythm of the music(this was louder than a cow bell but same metalic sound). Then they lit the candles, place the baby on the ground, sprinkled what looked to be lentils or something on the baby's head, and then the mother stepped over the baby 6 times as the crowd walked around holding the candles. Then, an older woman took the baby that was in a basket and tossed and shook it to apparently bring the bad spirits to the surface and rid of it. So the baby was literally being tossed around which was scary to watch, but fascinating because the baby slept through all of this. Then after the tossing, the baby was put in the middle of the room while people walked by and touch it. A huge amount of food was served and by that time, Jordan and I were looking at an hour ride back to our apartment so we left. As we were leaving we both looked at each other in amazement that we had just witnessed that. Jordan was having fun watching my reaction to everything. It was so out of my element, but very cool to be a part of.